Do you feel like...
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taking a break from dating to reconnect with yourself?
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pressing pause on “putting yourself out there” to reset and recharge?
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stepping away from dating to protect your energy and avoid disappointment?
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focusing on healing before opening your heart again?
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deepening your connection to your desires and what truly lights you up?
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you're exhausted or frustrated by dating apps and want a new approach?
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you're not actively dating but are open to love finding you?
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craving a more intentional, aligned way to date—on your terms?
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the path to partnership seems uphill, but you hold onto hope and believe in love?
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you don’t want to date at all, but still desire a life filled with love and connection?
This is for you if you are...
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feeling exhausted, drained, and totally over the dating scene
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experiencing disappointment and dead-end connections
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spending too much time, energy, and effort on dating apps
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feeling more disconnected than connected after dating
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taking more breaks from dating than actually meeting new people
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avoiding dating while still craving sex, love, and connection
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protecting yourself from disappointment by not dating at all
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watching your faith in men slowly disappear through dating
Rise into a version of yourself where you can…
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Feel empowered in your no's and in your yes'es.
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Get to know what you really need and long for and where you dare to speak about your desires.
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Embrace your love and singledom and trust that you’re exactly where you need to be
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Attract love that aligns with your deepest desires, without compromising who you are
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Confidently await the right connection, knowing that love is on its way.
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Believe in love and trust that every experience (even your past) is bringing you closer.
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Confidently move forward, knowing that the right match will come on time.
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Accept the past and stay open to new opportunities with an open heart ready to fully give and receive love.
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Learn and grow from every connection (pleasant and unpleasant) while not losing hope or falling into a downward spiral.
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Fall in love with your life while you set out to fall in love with your person.
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Show up as your authentic self and attract a partner who values you for who you truly are – no hiding, no shame.
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Stay optimistic, believing love is coming and it’s the perfect love for YOU.
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Uncover your full worth, attracting the love and intimacy you seek.
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Trust your instincts and step into your very own unique love story.
Being single is the ultimate self-love journey.
It will challenge you, test your limits, and push you to grow in ways you never imagined.
It can also be exhausting and draining…
But it doesn’t have to be.
As a woman, your desires hold the key to unlocking the love and life you truly long for.
Your desires live in the deep well of your being. They WANT to be heard, seen and answered, for they are the keys to getting what you want.
Yet – Many of us have been conditioned to silence, shrink, or second-guess these desires.
To date with desire means fully embracing your true self, trusting your deepest longings, and calling in a love that meets you where you are and want to go. It’s about leading with passion, confidence, and authenticity, drawing in the partner who not only complements but elevates your desires and vision for life—creating a partnership that amplifies, not just completes, your journey.
What do you truly want in love, in intimacy, in life?
This first launch beta program will guide you in uncovering those desires, helping you move from a place of uncertainty to one of power and love.
This is where your love story begins.
Why this program?
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Balanced Blend of Theory and Practice
Learn transformative concepts and immediately apply them through actionable exercises for real-world results.
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Deep Dive into Your Desires
Uncover, clarify, and harness the power of your deepest wants to create a love life that lets you be yourself.
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Accessible Pricing for Premium Content
Experience high-value guidance, learning and tools without breaking the bank.
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Holistic Approach to Dating
Integrates mindset, pleasure, and practical strategies to empower every aspect of your journey.
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Supportive Community Environment
Connect with like-minded women who uplift and inspire each other throughout the program. We offer 2 Q&A sessions and a Facebook group.
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Personalized Growth
Post-session self-paced tailored practices and insights ensure the program meets you where you are and helps you grow from there.
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Lasting Transformation
Go beyond surface-level changes to cultivate lasting confidence, magnetism, and self-love.
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Expert Guidance from Shari and Alexa
Benefit from the combined wisdom and experience of two passionate coaches dedicated to your success.
About Alexa
My name is Alexa Lynn
Alexa Lynn is a trauma-informed sex, love, and relationship coach specializing in conscious dating and femme empowerment. Rooted in self-love and pleasure, she helps women and folks to date consciously, attract authentic partnerships and live a fully-turned on life.
Through a desire-based coaching approach, Alexa will take you on an inner journey to uncover what your heart truly wants (and what’s in the way), move through blocks, and bring your desires to life with clarity and confidence in the real world.
Alexa helps you to fully embody your worthiness and magnetic energy to prepare you for the love you seek by using holistic tools such as visualization, meditation, breathwork, self-pleasure, and movement—and draws from somatic practices and ancient wisdom and teachings.
About Shari
My name is Shari Van de Craen
Shari Van de Craen is a sensuality and pleasure teacher dedicated to empowering women to light themselves up and have epic love-making by reconnecting with their bodies and turning themselves on.
She makes women stop living an unfulfilled (sex) life by having them stop making assumptions about their needs and by sending them to “Pleasure School” where they learn what it is that they truly desire, what holds them back from getting exactly that and by teaching them ways to confidently communicate it.
Shari is a firm believer that we are “orgasmic women” by nature and that we need to learn how to use our own pleasure toolkit that has been there all along – our breath, movement and sound. Through deep transformative and embodied (pleasure) practices, she gets to the root of pleasure and helps women reclaim it and make it even bigger.
Here’s What You Get In Our First Launch of Dating with Desire:
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4 Live, Interactive 90-Minute Group Sessions with Shari and Alexa:
Experience personalized learning and real-time breakthroughs.
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Access to Session Recordings:
Revisit insights and strategies whenever you need them.
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4 Exclusive Empowerment-Focused Modules:
Transform the way you date with content designed to ignite desire and empower dating.
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8 Guided Audio Practices for Deeper Processing:
Embark on a profound path to release, heal, and rise into your highest self.
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4 Stunning, Fillable Digital Module Booklets:
Packed with insights, key takeaways, and dedicated space for journaling and reflection.
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Powerful Journaling Exercises Aligned with Each Module:
Unlock clarity and self-awareness through practices tailored to your growth and transformation.
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4 Pleasure-Infused Embodiment Practices in Every Module:
Deepen your transformation with guided pleasure practices designed to amplify connection, empowerment, and self-trust. Pleasure is the red thread weaving through this journey, unlocking your magnetic radiance in dating and beyond.
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How much time do I need to dedicate to the program?You can expect 1-2 hours of homeplay module on top of the session.
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Is this course for women only?This program is open to anyone who identifies as a woman, including those who were assigned female at birth or who have transitioned.
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What time and day are the live calls and what if I can’t make it?Each session is 90 minutes + we have two time zones available: 7 PM CET (Belgium, Netherlands) OR: 7 PM EST (Toronto, New York) Monday, March 3 Monday, March 10 Monday, March 17 Monday, March 24 Each Q&A session is 60 minutes at 6 PM CET and 6 PM EST: Q&A Session 1 – Thursday, March 6 Q&A Session 2 – Wednesday, March 19 (ALL sessions will be recorded and available for 6 months)
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Is this course for heterosexual women only?This is a deep dive into your inner world. We welcome LGBTQIA+ and use inclusive language.
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Is this course refundable?No, it is not. Even if you’re at the beginning of a potential partnership, this program is tremendously valuable.
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How long do I have access to the content?Once the program is complete, you will have 6 months to access the recordings and resources.
